Listening is a key to success
Quality of a good listener
Be a good listener and keep yourself as calm as seashelves in a gigantic ocean.listening is not the same as hearing.
When anybody thinks of this word we generally impute listening has something to do with ears but they are wrong.Listening is what we perceive through senses,by heart and by soul this is what we call listening .Most of us treat listening as simple to hearing which I don't recommend anyone here.A short story from my early school days
I used to brag about myself all the day when I was in school and the important thing which I came to know later by my one of favourite mentors is that You should be a good listener and I could not be objective on it as It was given by my teacher .I had never imagined how to be a good listener and I didn't know the accurate meaning of the word before,so yeah I came to know about it only after the incident which have changed me a lot from inside and still is making too many changes inside me.
then only I began to realise that my teacher was conveying that If you'd be a good listener then you can gain anything .Anything here depicts the words "topper of your class".
Just have a look at this email we are listening that's why we can understand what other is trying to say
Listening, listening and listening
Listening is not the thing we are looking for but people are rather searching for anyone who can listen to them lol.
Nothing can be done in this situation . We can create awareness among the people through the knowledge of many years,only if we just listen .
There are less listeners than utterers that'why I am here to tell the difference between what a good listener can do and what bad consequences can be if you not listen.
Bad consequences
- You will not gain that type of support you deserve if you just keep on talking and not allowing anyone to take part in discussions or in whichever forums there may be .Instead you will lose support
- You cannot understand what others are trying to say .
- You can't be social unless you listen.
Good consequences
- Listening can earn a lot of fame believe it or not because according to my opinion If you just listen to one person,the whole world will listen to you one day
- listening can enhance your knowledge but make sure what you listen should not be of bad stuff otherwise you will end up in gangster,vandal and what not.Then you will try to put blame on me .
- We want to learn as much information as possible. We want to be as if a sponge soaking up all the water in a bowl, but instead us "soaking" all the information there is to acquire. The more information one has the greater and more powerful that person becomes.
- You can give answers to any question asked by your teacher only if you daily listen to them while studying.
Personal opinion
I personally think that the school system is crap because teachers
can't possibly teach a large group of students in the dullest of ways
possible. Each one of us learns differently whether it's visually,
mentally, physically, socially, or whatever everyone learns differently.
Plus I don't see the reason or theory in giving students quizzes and tests for us to just forget within a few weeks. Now I am jot saying that this happens to everyone, but this happens to a lot of people and it shouldn't have.
The changes that I would make at my school is to make different methods for the students to learn that they would also enjoy
But if I was in charge of the education system, I would base everyone's exams on their own individual abilities. For example, if somebody had a more mathematical approach to learning, their exam would be worded more mathematically.
Then if someone had a more artistic way of thinking, their exam would be more artistic. Does that make sense? It's like I'm a visual learner, and so in order to learn something, someone has to physically show me how to do it and explain it like that. Whereas some people hear something, and then they remember it
Plus I don't see the reason or theory in giving students quizzes and tests for us to just forget within a few weeks. Now I am jot saying that this happens to everyone, but this happens to a lot of people and it shouldn't have.
The changes that I would make at my school is to make different methods for the students to learn that they would also enjoy
But if I was in charge of the education system, I would base everyone's exams on their own individual abilities. For example, if somebody had a more mathematical approach to learning, their exam would be worded more mathematically.
Then if someone had a more artistic way of thinking, their exam would be more artistic. Does that make sense? It's like I'm a visual learner, and so in order to learn something, someone has to physically show me how to do it and explain it like that. Whereas some people hear something, and then they remember it